My heart goes out for you. I can only imagine …

Comment on Without That Sexual Spark You’re Just Friends by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

My heart goes out for you. I can only imagine what it must be like to be going through what you are going through. I wish I could be of more help but like you, I do not know what is happening biochemically. Until he feels well again, it’s hard to tell if this is about the illness or about the relationship (and you).

Just from a human point of view, I think that leaving someone at his lowest is cruel, most people never forgive or forget something like that. I also think that if you truly love someone (and not just what you get from being with him), you’d want to be there for him — whatever “being there for him” means for you.

Like I said, I don’t know much about his diagnosis — I’m just a Relationship Coach… All I can offer is my thoughts (I can’t even really give you advice). At the end of the day, this is something only you can decide on. You are the only one who really knows your relationship, knows what you want (which is also very important), and the only one who will live with the outcome of your decision.

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