Most of us try to be “someone’s else best” because …

Comment on Why Your Break-Up Does Not Make Any Sense by The Love Doctor.

Most of us try to be “someone’s else best” because we see that that’s what makes them attractive to others, the problem is that we are not them. I agree that increasing your confidence will help. The other thing that’ll help is allowing yourself to freely express the “goodness” you know is inside of you, but first you’ve to get in touch with that “goodness” and then confidently express it. That’ll be the focus of the next posts on this series.

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