I always feel like I’m the one trying to do …

Comment on Why Your Break-Up Does Not Make Any Sense by Viola.

I always feel like I’m the one trying to do the work that a relationship needs and guys just enjoy the ride then get out. I have a lot of great qualities, yet I just haven’t been able to feel happy without someone. I need to love myself first and fore most and stop letting myself be walked on and taken for granted in relationships.

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Why Your Break-Up Does Not Make Any Sense
I really appreciate your knowledge. I’m 35 years old and the issues you mention in your post surface in my life again and again. I think this is one of the reasons I’m always trying to be as good as the people I’m attracted to. This also hurts in relationships because I look to others to make me feel good about myself. I believe that bringing up my confidence level will help my cause.


Recent Comments by Viola

Is It Okay For A Woman To Propose?
My girlfriend of two years just broke it off with me over the phone again with its not you it’s me same old excuse. Last time she broke up with me it was because she wanted me to propose to her. She said she dropped “hints” but any woman with common sense knows that hints DONT WORK on most guys. Funny thing is, I was finally getting to making it permanent with her but guess if she thinks breaking up with me is the way to get me to do it, then she really doesn’t know me. I’m not going to propose to a woman who doesn’t understand me.


Is It Okay For A Woman To Propose?
Give him an ultimatum. Worked for my sister and she’s been married 2 years now.


Is It Okay For A Woman To Propose?
I like The Love Doctor’s Answer. I too think if anything you have to gently encourage him and whatever happens happens.


Is It Okay For A Woman To Propose?
I admit I judge people when I hear a woman proposed. It’s more romantic if a man proposes. A woman doing the asking shows she’s desperate. Also there is no way I’m going to live with a guy without ever getting married. It’s a superficial thing but the ring, wedding, title and everything that comes with marriage matters to me and so many women.


Is It Okay For A Woman To Propose?
First it was “propose or I’m leaving”.
Then it was, “set a date or I’m leaving”.
Finally it was, “impregnate me or I’m leaving”. He did.

Oh and she still thinks the ultimatum worked.


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