I hear you. For the most part, I have focused …

Comment on Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

I hear you. For the most part, I have focused on helping readers get their ex back, but you are right, it’s hard to stay focused when you are hurting.

I offer an online course for people trying not to act needy as a result of the pain, and ruin their chances. But I’ll see what I can do in the coming months to help readers get through the pain while maintaining contact with their ex.

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Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
You are not going to get a second chance just wishing for it, that’s for sure. If you want her back, you have to try to get her back.


Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
I can’t say for sure that it definitely means this or that. A lot depends on the link she sent you… what the article says.

My guess is, if you are doing ‘no contact” she wants you t know she doesn’t think 1) it’s a good idea and 2) it’ll not work to get her back.

If you are in contact, she may be communicating what you are doing wrong, what you should be doing, what’s holding her back, the changes she wants to see, etc.

But it could also mean something completely different… like, she doesn’t like me… 😉


Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
You acted needy and he pulled away. You panicked and offered him a way out and he took it. I honestly don’t think it matters either way. You can contact him or do NC, it isn’t going to make much of a difference.


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You mean “like” and “FAN” are not the same thing? Silly me. I should have taken English Major. I might have been somebody important or rich. I hope it’s not too late.


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Most of the time, it’s something you learn early in life. Cold and self centered kind of becomes your “default” traits. Some people continue it into adulthood because it’s either the only way they know how to or there is some sort of “reward” for them being cold and self centered (why would they want to change?).

Since it’s something that was learned – whatever can be learned can be unlearned. The only exception – at least from what I read – is if something happened to your brain to cause you not to be able to have/experience certain feelings the way the rest of us do, then you need more than just “unlearning” the behaviour. Other than that, if you really want to change, you CAN CHANGE!


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Congratulations, May!… 🙂

You will be just fine… I know it. All the very best.


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This could be because you still want her as your girlfriend and not as a friend. Until you reach that point where you “let go” hoping there will be a relationship of more than friends, it’ll be hard to get to being friends. Best advice is 1) be honest with your ex, friendship may be possible in the future, but right now you just can’t do it and 2) don’t try too hard to be her friend. Friendships are best when they just happen naturally.


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Over 90% honestly believe that it is over and thy are not changing their minds. Most change their minds because the dynamic changed and they can see the relationship can be better.

What I am saying is, as long as the lines of communication are still open, there is always a possibility he’ll change his mind. It is who you become (new you) and what you do to make the relationship FEEL and BE new and better that makes all the difference.


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