You said the breakup was due to an emotional security …

Comment on 5 Signs Of A Strong Emotional Bond by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

You said the breakup was due to an emotional security issue and fear of being loved, until that issue is sorted out, you are not going to be happy about trying again, or the relationship…

And yes, it’ll most likely happen again (probably more than once).

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You are right in that she may be protecting herself from getting hurt again. But it could also be that she moved on and responding out of politeness, especially if you’ve been broken up or have been in no contact for too long.

You could let her know that you want her back, but I don’t think it will change anything. Your best chance (if there is any), is to slowly attract her back to you.


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Anything can indeed happen… Congratulations Cece!… 🙂

Thanks for the words of encouragement.


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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


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I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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