I agree with you only on the part that says …

Comment on Why Men Fall In Love At First Sight More Often by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

I agree with you only on the part that says “I believe”. A belief is just like an opinion. It is not a FACT and doesn’t necessarily reflect reality.

Reality is that there are men like you who lust first, then fall in love (if they ever); and there are men who fall IN LOVE at first sight. Yes, they REALLY are there! I know some of them by name!

You might also want to re-examine your belief that “If a man fell in love, he would stay in love”. Most grown-ups outgrow that “lived happily ever after” belief in adolescence (or after their first heartbreak!)

Just because one falls out of love does not mean it was not love to begin with. It doesn’t even mean one has stopped loving that person, it just means the feeling of “falling in” is no longer there. That’s why there are so many men and women who still love somebody but just not IN love anymore. It’s all part of being human.

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