Question: It is really frustrating when you meet someone you think you connect with, everything is going fine, and then she stops responding. I’m going through it right now with a woman I’ve been seeing for 3 months. No texts, no emails, no call backs. Nothing! Why d women suddenly stop responding?
Wouldn’t it just be polite to tell someone you’re not interested than leave them wondering what they’ve done wrong?
Yangki’s Answer: I can’t speak for all women (and I don’t think any woman can or should), but I completely agree with you. It shows respect to at least let the other person know what’s going on.
Maybe she realized she’s not into you, may be things were going too fast for her, maybe she didn’t feel that the relationship met her needs, maybe it has nothing to do with you (e.g. she’s dealing with some difficult situation she can’t share with you because you were together for only 3 months). It could be anything.
She may contact you at some point, if and when she does, ask her what happened. Don’t just ignore her. Hear her out, see if she makes sense, and deal with things based on how you feel at the time. If anything, it’ll give you the “closure” you need.
If you decide you want to try it again, make it clear to her that next time she pulls another one, it’s over for good.
Respect is earned, but sometimes you have to ask for it.