Comment on Why Do Exes Come Back When You Stop Pursuing Them? by Elin.
Yangki, my ex of 1.5 years broke up with me to be with another women. I went NC for 3 months to heal and when I felt stronger I contacted him. He ignored me for several weeks then started to reach out slowly. I asked if he loves her and he said yes, so I stopped contacting him. But lately he has started reaching out more. I have a feeling it is not working out with his rebound woman based on our conversations. Part of me says i should give it a chance but make him wait for me for few months but part of me thinks he’s selfish and wants to eat his cake and have it too. Does he really love me or do you think he’s just using me?