When someone says “please stop contacting me”, you have to …

Comment on How You’re Driving Your Ex Further Away by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

When someone says “please stop contacting me”, you have to respect their wish.

Your bad place was when you acted needy, desperate etc… to the point that she felt she had to tell you not to contact her. Respecting her wish is how you show that you are out of the bad place.

That said, in my experience, when it gets to the point where your ex does not want contact… it’s probably too late to course correct. You can try to start over, try to contact her after some time has passed, but for now, this is as far as you can go actively trying to get her back.

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Manipulation, pressure, fear… those are topics I have written so many articles about. Without the quote I am unable to point you to the article you are looking for. Sorry!

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.

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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!

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I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.

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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.

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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.

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