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Comment on Why Can’t My Ex Decide If They Want Me Back?- Pt 2 by Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng.

Yes, the advice in my book works for the majority of situations, especially where the ex is open to some form of contact. However, I do recognize that there are some unique differences in relationships, break-ups and even personalities, that is why I offer one-on-one coaching — to understand what’s unique about a relationship and give advice tailored for the specific relationship or ex.

I am happy to work with you on what needs to change and how, what you can do so that he chooses to be with you.

Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng Also Commented

Why Can’t My Ex Decide If They Want Me Back?- Pt 2
If he’s a maximiser, the pressure to make a decision may be what is holding him back. Take away the pressure and see what happens.

Why Can’t My Ex Decide If They Want Me Back?- Pt 2
It’s only been 4 days, neither of you is doing NC, so give it time. He responded regularly before and you didn’t have a fight. There are reasons a person doesn’t respond – some of which have nothing to do with you. If it gets to a week or 10 days and you still haven’t heard from him, send him a text asking if he is alright/you’re worried about him. If he still doesn’t respond, then chances are he does not want to give you false hopes of getting back together or risking falling for you again.

Why Can’t My Ex Decide If They Want Me Back?- Pt 2
Good. She’s giving you a chance to prove you are worth investing in, again.

Recent Comments by Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.

What to Do When Your Ex Sends Mixed Signals
I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.

Help! My Ex Does Not ‘NEED’ Me Anymore (Toxic Caretaking)
You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.

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