I don’t like turning away someone who needs help — …

Comment on What’s The Best Program For How To Get Your Ex Back? by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

I don’t like turning away someone who needs help — and I am glad that you didn’t take it personally. As stated on the site, I do not want to take your hard-earned money when it’s not clear if your ex wants contact, or not. It just doesn’t feel right.

Him responding is a positive start but it doesn’t tell us if the lines of communication are open or not. You may not a response the next time you make contact. Use the free advice on the blog or you can buy the book ( a lot cheaper than coaching) to get a few more positive responses, then we can work together to build momentum.

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


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I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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