One of the most difficult things about attracting back an avoidant is trying to figure out the right balance between moving things forward and not putting pressure.
Most people apply general advice about avoidants and end up not only creating more frustration and anxiety for themselves but also making their avoidant ex feel unsafe, which then makes their ex pull further away.
Understanding what a dismissive avoidant means by taking things slow and what a fearful avoidant ex means by taking things slow can be the difference between getting back together, and not!
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