Who is “everybody?” Much of the advice we get from …

Comment on She Left Because Of My Depression Can I Get Her Back? by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

Who is “everybody?”

Much of the advice we get from “everybody” is largely influenced by the person’s own limited experience. That’s why you need to be discerning when receiving advice from “everybody”. Not all relationships are the same.

“What is meant to be will be” does not mean you sit back and do nothing. It means you do what is possible right now (what you control and can change), and not worry about a future you have no control over. If you do the present right, the future will take care of itself… that’s what “will be” means.

Recent Comments by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


What Not To Do When Your Ex Wants Space
You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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