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Comment on The TRUTH About How “No Contact” Works In Most Ex Situations by LOVE DOCTOR, YANGKI AKITENG.

If she wants a month of no contact, give it to her. That is not the same as you doing “no contact”, because you did not initiate it and (hopefully) will not ignore her if she reaches out to you in that time she has asked for no-contact.

“No contact” is when you initiate it, cut off all avenues of communication and ignore all attempts by your ex to communicate because you are sticking to some stupid rule.

PS: It’s easy to get confused with all the many different opinions out there. Follow the advice that rings “true” or feels “right” to you.


The TRUTH About How “No Contact” Works In Most Ex Situations
I hope you understand that all I can do is give advice. I can’t stop you from doing ‘no contact”… I do not have the desire to even try.

As we Africans say: Wear your rags to your funeral. Who am I to stop you.

I just hope for your sake, she is “waiting” for you to contact her. Some exes are not that “patient”.

The TRUTH About How “No Contact” Works In Most Ex Situations
This whole site is what IS recommended. This is THE alternative to no-contact. This is the IT.

But if you are looking for some simple magic solutions like ‘no contact”, you are not going to find it here. The advice here is for mature intelligent adults who think for themselves and make their own decisions, not for people who follow “rules”.

The TRUTH About How “No Contact” Works In Most Ex Situations
I love you too… 🙂


10 TOP INDICATORS Your Ex Will Come Back
It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.

What to Do When Your Ex Sends Mixed Signals
I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.

What Not To Do When Your Ex Wants Space
You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.

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