Starting As Friends With An Avoidant Ex You Want Back? (VIDEO)

Can you be friends with an avoidant ex? Can staying friends with an avoidant ex get them back if you don’t push, give them enough space and make them feel safe and secure since there is no threat to their independence or fear of getting hurt?

My own experience with my clients trying to attract back an avoidant has yielded mixed results.  A lot depends on if an avoidant wanting to be friends was because they wanted the attachment resources you provided but not want you back, or if being friends was a bridge to getting back together. It also depends on how you handle being friends with an avoidant ex, and if you an show that your dynamic can improve.

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