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Comment on Should You Accept Your Ex Has Moved On? by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

Give him the time he needs. If he’s open to some form of contact, reach out once in a while just to keep the lines of communication open.

In the meantime, try to figure out what is “restricting” him, and if it’s something to do with you, work on on. You will not get back together if whatever is “restricting” still exists.

Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng Also Commented

Should You Accept Your Ex Has Moved On?
You had planned to spend the rest of your lives together, anyone with a heart would still be crying two months later.

Has he moved on? I can’t say yes or no for sure. There are several reasons why someone does not respond the first time you reach out after being away for so long.

Try to reach out again a couple times at intervals. If he still does not respond, then you know for sure that he’s moved on.


Should You Accept Your Ex Has Moved On?
The answer is on page 305… I have included an example of a response you can modify to suit your personality.


Should You Accept Your Ex Has Moved On?
Whether you want to stop talking to him or continue talking to him is a decision only you can make.

In my opinion, it’d be a mistake to stop talking to him when he obviously wants to stay in contact. If you cut him off and try to reach out to him later, he may not want to talk to you.

If he says there is a chance you might get back together then give yourselves a chance to see where things go. Your life can only be put on hold if you’ve built your life around him (what he decides to do with it).


Recent Comments by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng

10 TOP INDICATORS Your Ex Will Come Back
It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


What to Do When Your Ex Sends Mixed Signals
I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


What Not To Do When Your Ex Wants Space
You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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