You are right, you became needy. Give it a few …

Comment on Should I Reach Out Or Wait For My Ex to Initiate A Text? by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

You are right, you became needy. Give it a few more days (no more than 4 days since last contact), and if you don’t hear from him, send him a text and go from there.

Just make sure you don’t overstay your welcome next time. If the responses suddenly take longer to come or his responses become short, it’s time to wrap things up… and reach out again at a later time, and keep reaching to keep things going forward.

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Should I Reach Out Or Wait For My Ex to Initiate A Text?
If a man really likes (and loves) a woman, the fact that she approached him will not matter to him. But if he’s not that all into her, “I lost interest because you approached me first” is a perfectly good excuse out of something he knew deep down wouldn’t have lasted or even had a chance to begin with.

… but make her feel she had a chance but ruined it!


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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


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I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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