The book is NOT about a “method”, that’s a “efforting” …

Comment on Sexual Energy and Body Language by Yangki Christine Akiteng, Love Doctor.

The book is NOT about a “method”, that’s a “efforting” or PAU mindset. There are no methods or scripts in the book because it’s about something that happens from the inside naturally and following your own unique individual way of BE-ING your sexual self.

If you’re looking for a “method”, my advice is don’ buy the book, it’ll be a waste of your time and money. Also if you are not mentally ready for a completely different take on what it means to “naturally seduce” (with the purpose of a lasting loving relationship and not just to get laid), you will find yourself more confused than enlightened.

It applies to both, because sexual energy has no gender of sex. It’s both within men and women, and in all of us with equal amounts and works the same way for both men and women. Some of us are either born or have developed skills for using it to benefit us and others have not.

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Sexual Energy and Body Language
You might want to read some of my articles on Sexual Energy & Sexual Confidence. I think you’ll find them helpful. Also my eBook “The Art of Seducing Out of Fullness” is about using natural sexual energy to draw others to you instead of the canned scripts typical of PUAs.

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Leave him for good and move on with your life or try to make things work out with him is a decision only you can make. I don’t believe in making decisions for others that they should be making for themselves. As a coach, I can only help you with whatever decision you make or whatever side you’re already leaning towards. Making decisions for you isn’t empowering you to OWN your life — and relationship (be responsible!).

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If it makes you feel good to have “closure” contact him and tell him you’ll not be bothering him again. But that’s all what contacting him will do, give you “closure” (hopefully!).

Waiting for him to contact you is unrealistic. They say the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour… he didn’t contact you for 2 months and when you contacted him he didn’t seem interested and hasn’t responded to any of your 3 contacts, what makes you think he’ll contact you?

My suggestion is that you let this go… meaning you stop actively trying to get him back and focus your attention elsewhere. You can try again later if you are still up to it, but for now more contact is useless.

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It might explain why some women seem to all be sharing or recycling the same men.

Should I Reach Out Or Wait For My Ex to Initiate A Text?
There’s that school of thought and I respect your position. However, I’m not saying women HAVE to approach men. Some women like you obviously have a problem with it, and that’s OK.

I think that if a woman wants to take the initiative and own the power to choose who she dates instead of complaining about men not approaching her, or about meeting only losers (who approach her), why try to take that from her with statements like “unless she’s desperate?”

We all should do what we have to do and let others do what they want to do. Makes life easier for everybody… (:

So Why Is My Ex Texting Me Now?
My advice… Grow up and stop playing mind games.

Engaging and pulling away — as in no contact then contact, then pulling away, then contact, then not returning calls etc — is destructive for any relationship.

One of you has to step up and be the adult, if not, it’s going to be like this until the feeling of love and liking is completely gone — for good!

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