

How to Make An Avoidant Ex Feel Safe Enough To Come Back
byHow to make an avoidant feel safe should be your number one priority if you want your fearful avoidant or dismissive avoidant ex to come back.
Why A Fearful Avoidant Ex Wants To Only Text But Not Meet
One of the challenges of trying to attract back a fearful avoidant ex is getting them to meet or want to hang out. Most…
How to Make An Avoidant Ex Feel Safe Enough To Come Back
How to make an avoidant feel safe should be your number one priority if you want your fearful avoidant or dismissive avoidant ex to come back.
How to Be In Control Without Being Controlling
Whether we admit it or not, we all want to have some degree of control in our relationships. Having control in our relationships makes…
Do Dismissive Avoidants Ever Feel “Longing” For An Ex?
The dismissive avoidant “I don’t need you” attitude in the relationship is consistent with their Who needs you?” attitude after the break-up. While you’re “giving them time to begin longing for you”, a dismissive avoidant has moved on.
How Does Being Friends Help Get an Avoidant Ex Back?
Being friends with an avoidant ex can actually work better because it helps maintain some degree of certainty, consistency and safety that avoidants need to feel that the relationship can work.
14 Strong Signs An Avoidant Misses You And Wants You Back
Some signs are obvious signs that show your ex is interested again, others are subtle and others are specific to the relationship or ex, and some are just an ex breadcrumbing you.
6 Signs An Avoidant Ex Is NOT Done With You For Good
Sometimes avoidants break up with you but they’re not done with you for good. It seems final because they are avoidant, but they’re not completely done. They can still change their mind and come back
Can You Rebuild A Deep Spiritual Connection With Your Ex?
When you miss your ex so intensely that you feel them, is it possible that they’re feeling the same through a spiritual connection or…

How Do Dismissive Avoidants Process The Break-Up?
byDismissive avoidants feel a certain way in one break-up and feel differently in another break-up, and how they processes a break-up varies from one dismissive avoidant to another.
How Does Being Friends Help Get an Avoidant Ex Back?
Being friends with an avoidant ex can actually work better because it helps maintain some degree of certainty, consistency and safety that avoidants need to feel that the relationship can work.
Can You Rebuild A Deep Spiritual Connection With Your Ex?
When you miss your ex so intensely that you feel them, is it possible that they’re feeling the same through a spiritual connection or…
How To Respond To Avoidant Ex Trying To Get Your Attention
In this article, I’ll introduce you to the concept of “bids for connection” – one of the quickest ways to make an ex feel…
How To Deal With A Control Freak In Your Life
Question: Yangki, I love your website and all your advice. I have a question different from the usual relationship questions you get because my situation…
What Is Sexual Confidence And How Do You Get It?
A lack of sexual confidence limits one’s ability to find a romantic partner and can often lead to bad choices when it comes to…
How Do I Know Someone Is Right For Me?
Question: First of all let me say, I’ve been through almost every post on your blog and every article on your website and I…
Help! I’m In Love With A Married Woman
Question: I found my soul mate. She’s perfect! Only problem is…she’s married. Every time we say goodbye after a few stolen hours together, my heart…
How Avoidants Feel About Nonverbal Affection And Touching
How do avoidants feel about affection? Do they like nonverbal expressions of affection? In my research on how avoidants express love and affection, how…
Can You Rebuild A Deep Spiritual Connection With Your Ex?
When you miss your ex so intensely that you feel them, is it possible that they’re feeling the same through a spiritual connection or…
Are Women Attracted to Men Who Play Hard to Get?
Question: Are women attracted to men who play hard to get? Does playing hard to get make a man more attractive; or do women…
How to Work On Being Secure While Trying To Get Back An Ex
Working on becoming securely attached and trying to get back your ex at the same time is an effective strategy because you learn-by-doing in a natural and authentic relationship situation.
Your Ex Is In A New Relationship – Do You Still Have A Chance?
Feelings don’t disappear into thin air overnight but you also don’t want to insert yourself into your ex’s new relationship and look pathetic and insecure. Nothing says triggered, insecure, unsafe, red flag as
Avoidant Ex Is Guarded – How to Get Past Emotional Walls
The more you invest in trying to get past an avoidant ex’s resistance or breakdown their emotional walls, the harder it becomes to change the situation or make significant progress.
Women Want Sex Men Want To Cuddle
Just when we thought we had the sexual preferences of male and female all figured out and tacked away in little neat stereotypes, someone…
Why The End Of A Relationship Hurts So Much
Are you hurting because of a break-up? Do you feel like your world has come to an end? Can’t get over an old love?…
Facebook Ruining Your Relationship?
As if maintaining a relationship isn’t difficult enough, now, human sexuality researcher and PhD candidate at the University of Guelph in Canada, Amy Muise,…
Why A Fearful Avoidant Ex Wants To Only Text But Not Meet
One of the challenges of trying to attract back a fearful avoidant ex is getting them to meet or want to hang out. Most…
How Does Being Friends Help Get an Avoidant Ex Back?
Being friends with an avoidant ex can actually work better because it helps maintain some degree of certainty, consistency and safety that avoidants need to feel that the relationship can work.
7 Steps From Being Friends With An Ex To Getting Back Together
Being friends with an ex with the expectation of getting back together doesn’t guarantee your ex will come back, but it gives you a 30 – 40% advantage. The goodwill, trust, consistency and safety works even better with an avoidant ex.
My Ex Can’t Stop Talking About His Ex- Am I The Rebound?
Question: We broke up because my ex would not stop talking about his ex-wife. I‘m not bothered by the fact that he mentions her,…
Your Ex Is In A New Relationship – Do You Still Have A Chance?
Feelings don’t disappear into thin air overnight but you also don’t want to insert yourself into your ex’s new relationship and look pathetic and insecure. Nothing says triggered, insecure, unsafe, red flag as
Can I Get Back My Ex If She Loves Me But Not Over Her Ex?
Question: We had an immediate attraction and things were really good between us. Four months into the relationship she told me she was falling for…
What Bad Boys Know And Do That Nice Guys Don’t – Pt 2
The sex appeal of a bad boy is real, so real that once we women go “BAD” it’s really hard for us to go…
Annoying Men Who Whine (Like Women?)
Ladies, many of you have probably experienced this. You go out with a guy and he thinks he’s “sharing his feelings”, “passing on information”…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
If your ex is indecisive, frustrating as it may be, maybe it’s actually a good thing that they think through decisions thoroughly. I was…
The Land Where Women Rule!
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
My Ex Can’t Stop Talking About His Ex- Am I The Rebound?
Question: We broke up because my ex would not stop talking about his ex-wife. I‘m not bothered by the fact that he mentions her,…
Your Ex Is In A New Relationship – Do You Still Have A Chance?
Feelings don’t disappear into thin air overnight but you also don’t want to insert yourself into your ex’s new relationship and look pathetic and insecure. Nothing says triggered, insecure, unsafe, red flag as
Can I Get Back My Ex If She Loves Me But Not Over Her Ex?
Question: We had an immediate attraction and things were really good between us. Four months into the relationship she told me she was falling for…
4 Biggest Myths About Soul Mates BUSTED!
This soul mates myth busters will forever change your beliefs about soul mate love and soul-connections. Mine changed forever. I was one of those…
Are Women Attracted to Men Who Play Hard to Get?
Question: Are women attracted to men who play hard to get? Does playing hard to get make a man more attractive; or do women…
How To Start Over With Your Ex – 3 Most Important Steps
Question: Can you clarify what you mean by “start over with your ex?” Are there any specific steps that I need to follow to…
Do Dismissive Avoidants Miss You After A Break-Up? (VIDEO)
If your ex has a dismissive avoidant attachment style, you must be asking yourself, “do dismissive avoidants miss you?” Or “will a dismissive avoidant…
Do Fearful Avoidants Chase You If They Think You Moved On? (VIDEO)
If you feel like your fearful avoidant ex has pulled away and is acting like they stopped loving you, its not all in your…
7 Warning Signs A Fearful Avoidant May Not Be Coming Back (VIDEO)
Some of the warning signs discussed in the video are things a fearful avoidant needs to do for themselves, and if they don’t, at…