Are You RESPONDING To Your Ex’s Bids For Connection?
Many of us experience positive moments of emotional connection from time to time, but often it’s ‘accidental’ and not easy to duplicate or sustain…
Should I Comment On My Ex’s Social Media Posts?
Question: My ex shared a story on social media about someone at her work having a difficult day and how friends helped her through…
Why Does My Ex Contact Me Then Disappear?
Question: My ex sent me a text after months of no contact. I texted her back and asked if I can call her. We…
Fearful Avoidant Ex Is Acting Hot And Cold – What Did I Do Wrong?
If you are not familiar with bipolar disorder, it’s a mental health condition that causes extreme mood swings or extreme emotional highs and lows….
What Your Ex Says Vs. What You Think They Mean
One of the things that frustrates some of my clients is when I insist on “What exactly did your ex say, when, why and…
Toxic Giving – How to Stop Giving Too Much For So Little
Every relationship needs give-and-take between two people to truly be a relationship. “Give-and-take” in a relationship simply means both people invest into the relationship…
Love On The Brain – Accepting A Break-Up Is Hard
Almost every adult experiences a break-up at some point in their lifetime. Most of us in time accept the loss and move on, but…
Are The Feelings Of A Rebound Relationship Real?
We often have a negative opinion of someone on a rebound because of all the things we hear and read about rebound relationships. Some…
My Ex Has A Problem With How I Look – Can I Change His Mind?
Question: My ex and I were in a relationship for three years. He broke up with me for some ‘not clear reason’. After the…
What Your Ex Says Vs. What You Think They Mean
One of the things that frustrates some of my clients is when I insist on “What exactly did your ex say, when, why and…
10 Emotional Resilience Tips That’ll Help You Handle Your Ex’s Emotions
A client torn between staying in contact with his ex and doing no contact wanted my advice and help. We talked a little bit…
Can An Arranged Marriage Work?
They say marriages are made in heaven. But then, there are also those made here on earth. Though an arranged marriage may feel like…
Why Do Men Chase Women Who Are Hard To Get?
Question: I’m a man and like it or not, males chase after females who’re hard to get, or hard to get a hold of….
Rush to Marry – Waiting Until Early 30s Is A Thing
Over the last five decades, Canadians have been getting married later and later. From 1981 to 2011, the percentage of 25 to 29-year-old Canadians…
How To Heal Hurt Feelings And Animosity
Scientists studying the physical nature of hate found that some of the nervous circuits in the brain responsible for hate are the same as…
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
If you love someone should you tell him or her? Some of you will say “Yes. absolutely”. But most of you will probably say,…
Are You A Man Who Loves Too Much?
You were looking for a loving, self-confident, open and independent woman who won’t smoother you or try to change you. But somehow you ended…
10 Most Confusing Ex’s Behaviours And Misread Signals
Some of our ex’s behaviour can be very confusing because of the history we have with them. And it doesn’t help that there are…
Should You Invite Your Ex to Your Place?
Question: Yangki, I read your Dating Your Ex eBook and one of the things you said is that it’s the moments when you both…
Is Honesty In Relationships Overrated? This Love Doctor Thinks So
Before you read any further, let me get it upfront. Honesty is a virtue, and in relationships, honesty is what makes a relationship authentic….
Relationship Red Flags – Dating A Manipulator (Pt 3)
The fear of being played or used by your ex is real. It’s always a possibility especially if when you were together your ex…
Are You A Man Who Loves Too Much?
You were looking for a loving, self-confident, open and independent woman who won’t smoother you or try to change you. But somehow you ended…
4 Myths About Soul Mates – BUSTED!
I was one of those people who believed with everything in me that the day I met my soul mate, the ground I was…
Want A Happy Satisfied Romantic Partner? (Study)
The happiest couples are those in which both partners feel that they are able to make major decisions in the relationship according to a…
How Each Attachment Style Deals With Lying And Betrayal
There is a link between attachment styles and why some people stay and others leave following a discovery of a romantic partner’s deception according…
Intelligent People Trust More – Study Says
Intelligent people are more likely to trust others, while those who score lower on measures of intelligence are less likely to do so, says…
Should A Woman Make The First Move?
Question: Is it okay for a woman to make the first move? What’s the best time frame between contacts? How do I change things…
We Had An Amazing First Date – Why Did He Pull Away?
Question: I recently met someone from an online site who was attractive and we had an amazing first date. We wound up spending an…
6 Signs That Cute Co-Worker Digs You
The workplace is a pretty good place to meet a potential life partner if you can keep romance and work separate. Unlike bars where…
Without That Sexual Spark You’re Just Friends
Everyone loves a good kiss – or at lease most men and women do. Guilty! I will not deny that I’ve dumped a guy…
Why Do Men Chase Women Who Are Hard To Get?
Question: I’m a man and like it or not, males chase after females who’re hard to get, or hard to get a hold of….
Can An Arranged Marriage Work?
They say marriages are made in heaven. But then, there are also those made here on earth. Though an arranged marriage may feel like…
The Land Where Women Rule!
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
8 Tips On How to Deal With Differences In Interracial Relationships
Question: I don’t know if you address this sort of thing or even answer questions related to interracial and intercultural dating but I thought…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to…
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
If you love someone should you tell him or her? Some of you will say “Yes. absolutely”. But most of you will probably say,…
It’s OK to Fall In Love With Ugly (But Try Not to Cry)
Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing…
Why Your Ex Thinks You Have Not Changed
You’ve been trying to get back with your ex for a while now but don’t understand why you don’t seem to make any progress….
Will Saying ‘See You Soon’ Make Your Ex Feel Pressured?
Ever heard of fear-based or anxiety-based communication? Yeah. There is such a thing. Most people are unaware that they communicate fear, anxiety and worry…
10 Emotional Resilience Tips That’ll Help You Handle Your Ex’s Emotions
A client torn between staying in contact with his ex and doing no contact wanted my advice and help. We talked a little bit…