I’m a relationship coach who uses attachment theory as a tool for attracting back your ex. I’m happy to answer any questions you may have about your ex’s attachment style and what you can do to successfully get back together; AND also answer any questions on how to become more secure.
The ‘Secure Attachment Approach” to attracting back your ex
Anxious attachment tells you that if you are not connected all the time, you’ll lose the other person. Avoidant attachment tells you that if you are connected all the time, you’ll lose yourself to the other person.
Secure attachment understands that a healthy balance of connection and space from the other is necessary for a strong bonding experience. Secure attachment is therefore the ability to stay connected/close while giving each other enough space to exercise your independence as individuals – without the fear of losing the other person or losing oneself.
I help you stay connected/close to your avoidant ex without triggering their fear of closeness and help avoidant exes feel safe enough to want connection and closeness.
The secure attachment approach allows things to develop slowly and steadily and for the new relationship to grow over time. The slow and steady build up to the new relationship also allows you to be able to correct anything that might go wrong without disrupting the whole process. Many of my clients make much progress quickly, feel more confident about their chances and end up back together with their ex.
The biggest difference working with me is that there is no manipulation, mind games or trickery. You will feel good about yourself knowing you approached things from a secure attachment, and your ex came back because they love you and want to be with you, and not because you manipulated or tricked them into coming back. And you’ll continue to feel confident in and with your relationship as you become more and more secure.
On-going coaching allows us to work over a period of time and includes email exchanges throughout the day/week.
You have a choice to either schedule all your sessions on a specific day/time each week or request a session when you need it (Monday – Friday 10 a.m. – 10 p.m. Eastern).
Make sure you complete your sessions within the time specified for your package. If you need a little more time, let me know before your package expires and we can come to an agreement that works for both of us. There will be no extensions or refunds after your package has expired.