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Comment on OMG! Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

No, I do not have articles that focus specifically on attachment styles in relation to post-breakups. My upcoming book about dealing with break-up distress covers post break-up emotional resilience and adjustment quite extensively. The book will be available to the market February 14, 2017 (fingers crossed). For now, what you find here is all I have.

Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng Also Commented

OMG! Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You
There is only one way to find out… contact her

If you are ever going to get back together someone has to contact the other, and since she’s not contacting you…


OMG! Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You
I understand coming from NC mindset this article (and everything on this site) will be very confusing. Unfortunately, I am not of much help with your NC question because I don’t think anyone [mature person] wanting their ex back should be doing it in the first place. Please read my article:

Is It Wrong To Do No Contact?

In your another question you said “4 months since our breakup she’s not contacting me even once, so I do NC (25 days today) as the last resort to get her back, is it wrong for me to do NC?”

What’s the point of doing NC? She’s moved on. She probably moved on a long time ago. This is exactly why I say 95% of people doing NC are in denial… having a hard time accepting it’s over.


OMG! Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You
Don’t worry. I don’t see it as an attack on me. I see a curious reader… 🙂

First of all, I don’t believe relationships or love for that matter works with “rules” So yes, I don’t have any “rules’, just advice. Secondly this whole site is THE alternative to “no contact”. I started the site for people who don’t agree with “no contact” and yet don’t know how else to get their ex back. So feel free to explore… THE alternative to “no contact”.


Recent Comments by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


What to Do When Your Ex Sends Mixed Signals
I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


Help! My Ex Does Not ‘NEED’ Me Anymore (Toxic Caretaking)
You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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