Comment on Avoidant Ex – Contact, Connect and Attract An Avoidant – 12 by Mikho.
Yangki, I have very strong dismissive tendencies. All my relationships have begun and ended on my terms. I pride myself on how quickly I forget and move on from relationships. Long story short, I once again ended things with my ex. We didn’t speak for a couple of weeks but then she reached out. I didn’t respond but after reading your articles I broke my avoidant tendencies and responded. She asked if she could call and we had a 15-minute conversation. Since then she texts me almost daily and I try to respond but I’m starting to feel suffocated. I don’t want her to think I want to be left alone but I also don’t like feeling suffocated, if that makes sense.