Comment on My Ex Will Not Talk To Me – What Do I Do? by pelouffe.
My boyfriend of almost 2 years just stopped calling one day & hasn’t called me or taken my calls for 4 months now. The last day we spoke, things were normal. He had a call come in and told me he’d call me right back. He didn’t. I found out that he got news about his sister who was terminal that she had not much time left and I thought that maybe this affected him to the point of shutting down. His dad told me that he said he just wanted to be on his own. Why do some people do this? We were so close and getting closer and now nothing.
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My Ex Will Not Talk To Me – What Do I Do?
Sorry if it came across that way. I DO understand what he’s going through as I lost my brother a few years ago. I know the loss and devastation that he is feeling right now. I guess I just wanted an opinion as to whether or not it is a common reaction to shut out the person you love and have had a connection/relationship with for as long as we had. People who know him tell me that he deals with things by walling himself off. I just feel helpless. I want to be there for him but I can’t and my heart is breaking for him.