You indeed are on a journey… (: Feeling good about ourselves …

Comment on My Ex Will Not Talk To Me – What Do I Do? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

You indeed are on a journey… (:

Feeling good about ourselves is the reward we get for choosing the path that helps our growth. Some day you are going to look back at this and be very glad you learned to reach out even when your ego is fighting you.

Walk well…

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My Ex Will Not Talk To Me – What Do I Do?
That’s certainly a different tone from ” Why do some people do this?”… (:

Each person is different… I don’t think there is a “standard” way of reacting to bad news. This is his way and it seems those who know him have pretty much told you that’s who he is. If you love him and care for him as much as you say you do… LET HIM BE. Let him deal with this his own way. That’s what it means to love someone and what “being there for them” means. It’s about them and not about you… or your breaking heart.


My Ex Will Not Talk To Me – What Do I Do?
I don’t know why people do the things they do… but I believe everyone has a good reason (at least good as far as they are concerned) for doing what they do. Finding out that someone close to you has terminal illness is HUGE. Many people naturally shut down and want to be on their own.

Personally, I don’t think I’d want to call someone who doesn’t understand what I’m going through — and is only thinking of themselves (which is how your comment comes across).


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