If he doesn’t want contact, there is not much you …

Comment on My Ex Says It’s Over Am I In Denial? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

If he doesn’t want contact, there is not much you can DO.

Use the time that he wants no contact to really work on yourself this time. If at some point you feel like contacting him, reach out to him. You should only do this when you know that you have worked on your issues. I strongly recommend working with a professional. Most people do it on their own and think that they have gotten rid of the crazy behaviour, only for it to show up again once they get into a relationship.

If he gives you another chance again, he may not be so open next time.

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Hi Kimmie, you’ve posted about your ex on just every single article I’ve written for the last 2 months even when it has nothing to do with “an ex” or the questions you’re asking. I’ve tried to answer most of your questions, and I really want to continue to be of help, but it’s important that I keep the blog relevant, useful and user friendly otherwise, it’ll become just another “forum”. Please kindly read the instructions on getting a response to your question in the “Ask a Question” page above.


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