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WHO'S YANGKI AKITENG

Love Doctor Yangki Akiteng In A Snapshot

My work combines post-attachment processing and healing, secure reconnection and earned secure attachment.

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I am a post-breakup coach specializing in getting exes back together. This is me in a snapshot.

Nationality: Ugandan/Canadian

Zodiac Sign: Libra

Chinese Year of Birth: Dragon

Hobbies/Interests: Studying people/human behaviour, reading, dancing, social justice, volunteer work, travel/exploring different cultures, ancient architecture, art museums, interior decor, gardening (rock gardens), jumping on a trampoline etc.

All-Time Favourite Books:

  • A Long Walk to Freedom (Nelson Mandela)
  • A Man For All Seasons (Robert Bolt)
  • Love (Leo Buscaglia)
  • The Seat of the Soul (Gary Zukav)
  • Song Of Lawino (Okot P’Bitek)
  • You’re Lonely When You’re Dead (James Hadley Chase)
  • I’ll Take Manhattan (Judith Krantz)
  • Mine Boy (Peter Abrahams)
  • Concubine (Elechi Amadi)
  • No Longer At Ease (Chinua Achebe)
  • Devil on the Cross (Ngugi wa Thiong’o)
  • Betrayal in the City (Francis Imbuga)
  • The Crucible (Arthur Miller)
  • Wuthering Heights (Emily Brontë)

Favourite Music: African, Reggae, Rumba (can dance Amour Cherche Amour all day), Calypso,  R&B/Soul, Hip-Hop, Pop, Country, old-time Rock n’Roll.

Favourite City: Barcelona, Spain

Favourtie Colour: Black, Royal Blue

Favourite Causes: Fairness and social justice, protection of the most vulnerable, poverty reduction and the environment.

Spirituality: I’m non-religious and I do not go to church, but I believe Jesus Christ is the Son of God, and is my Lord and Saviour. I just don’t like what “church people” say and do in His name. I might be going to hell, but I am at peace with that.

Academic Education & Training:

  • Post Graduate training in Humanistic and Experiential Counseling, (University of Surrey, UK);
  • Certificate in Expressive Arts Therapy (University of Surrey, UK);
  • Advanced Certificate in Trauma Counseling (Toronto Advanced Professional Education/University of St. Michael at University of Toronto);
  • Solution Focused Counseling (Faculty of Social Work, University of Toronto)
  • Crisis Management, Long-Term Treatment of Adult Survivors of Childhood Trauma, Treatment for Traumatized Unresolved Adult Issues (Toronto Advanced Professional Education/University of St. Michael at University of Toronto);
  • Addictions Studies (Toronto Advanced Professional Education/University of St. Michael at University of Toronto).
  • Degree in Psychology and Political Science (Makerere University, Kampala, Uganda);
  • Diploma in Mass Communication (School of Mass Communication, Kampala, Uganda)
  • Certificate in Journalism (Uganda Management Institute)

Another Life

  • Associate, International Health Programs Training Services – Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (Toronto)
  • Programs Manager – UNICEF, Canada (Toronto)
  • Program Coordinator – Canada Department of Global Affairs /Canadian International Development Agency (Kenya-Uganda)
  • Development Aid Coordinator – Department for International Development/British High Commission (Uganda)
  • Environment Management Researcher – National Environment Management Authority/World Bank (Uganda)
  • Public Relations Manager – Karamoja Development Agency/European Economic Commission (Uganda)

More about me…

Post-breakup coach offering a secure attachment-driven alternative to mainstream breakup advice, and a more empathetic understanding of both anxious and avoidant attachment styles.

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The Fearful Avoidant 3-6-9 Month Breakup Timeline

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What Exes Who Got Their Ex Back By Being Friends Do Right

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What Makes Avoidants Want To Change? (How You Can Help)

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Why Dismissive Avoidants Push You Away (How to Prevent It)

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How Avoidant Ex Leaves The Door Open To Reconnect Later

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Why It Takes A Fearful Avoidant Ex Long To Come Back

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7 Reasons Why A Fearful Avoidant Ex Goes No Contact

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Dismissive Avoidant: You Love Me More Than I Love You

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How To Get Close To An Avoidant Ex – Make Them Trust You

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How to RESPOND When An Avoidant Asks For Space

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7 Warning Signs A Fearful Avoidant May Not Be Coming Back (VIDEO)

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Do Dismissive Avoidants Miss You After A Break-Up? (VIDEO)

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Do Fearful Avoidants Want You To Chase Them? (VIDEO)

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Limited Contact With Your Ex EQUALS No Momentum (VIDEO)

YANGKI'S VIDEOS2 years ago

What To Do When Your Ex Cuts Off Contact, Ignores You (VIDEO)

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Exes Who Like The Chase More Than They Want The Catch (VIDEO)

YANGKI'S VIDEOS2 years ago

How to Motivate An Avoidant to Change (VIDEO)

YANGKI'S VIDEOS2 years ago

How to Ask for What You Want And Not Seem Needy (VIDEO)

YANGKI'S VIDEOS2 years ago

Taking Things Slow With An Avoidant Ex (VIDEO)

YANGKI'S VIDEOS2 years ago

Stop Over Texting And Over Pursuing Your Ex (VIDEO)

YANGKI'S VIDEOS2 years ago

Do Fearful Avoidants Regret Losing You? (VIDEO)

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Stop A Dismissive Avoidant From Pushing You Away (VIDEO)

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How to Talk To A Fearful Avoidant – Difficult Conversations (VIDEO)

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It Takes Time To Change, Will Your Ex Move On? (VIDEO)

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