I don’t know if you read this part “You don’t …

Comment on Let Go To Hold On To Your Relationship by Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng.

I don’t know if you read this part “You don’t have to give up the relationship, just let go what’s bringing you more of what you don’t want”.

Letting go is a process… I have written quite a bit about it. You might want to do a search site on “letting go” .

As for “stop all kinds of communication”, that’s not something I advice or encourage if you still want your ex back. I know others do it, I do not. I am about communication and connection, building bridges not burning them. Love not fear or indifference.

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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