If you mean why would someone move on after trying …

Comment on Let Go To Hold On To Your Relationship by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

If you mean why would someone move on after trying to get you back — and failed? Because it’s the most sensible thing to do. If I were her, I’d move on too. A “few months” is too long to “wait” for an ex (to make up his mind as to what he wants to do with your life).

A better question is, why would anyone expect an ex to put his/her life on hold, waiting for you to “be ready?” You don’t own her, and if you are broken up, she has every right to date anyone she wants. If while you are “getting ready”, she meets someone she likes better, good for her. Life goes on after a break-up.

She probably denied it because she didn’t want to hurt your feelings or because she knew this is exactly how you’d react.

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