First of all, I don’t hate anyone. Hate takes too …

Comment on 4 Ways to Move On After a Break-Up by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

First of all, I don’t hate anyone. Hate takes too much effort and I’m mentally, emotionally and spiritually too lazy to make the effort… (:

All I’m doing is cautioning people against latching on to “no contact” as if it were a magic solution. I’ve seen so many people who have a real good chance of getting their ex back blow it off with “no contact”, and those who really have no chance of getting their ex back waste so many months in “no contact”, only to end up exactly where they were before they began ‘no contact”.

As for who I work with. I said I don’t work with people not in contact with their ex. What I say is first try to establish contact with your ex, and if there is a positive response, then contact me. My experience has been that by the time people choose to do no contact, 90% of the time that relationship is so damaged that the chances of getting back together with their ex are very low. I do not feel comfortable taking someone’s hard-earned money knowing too well that they probably have no chance of getting their ex back… and I put that out there upfront. Not business smart? May be. But it’s who I am.

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