Sentimenental but not entirely true, IMO. One does not “get love”, …

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Sentimenental but not entirely true, IMO.

One does not “get love”, love resides in us.

Hold On When You Get Love” is the reason most of us get hurt, manipulated, abused, and end up bitter and disillusioned because we are looking for something that’s NOT “out there”.

The part about “Let Go When You Give It” makes more sense because we can only give what’s ours to give. But even that isn’t applicable to everyone. Some of us do not have enough love for ourselves, let alone have some to spare for someone else. Hence the running around trying to “get love” and/or “holding on” to people who want to be let go.

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