I was always straightforward with guys that showed interest, but …

Comment on If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them? by Nisha.

I was always straightforward with guys that showed interest, but those relationships ended with no proposal. When I met my ex, I did all the things people say to do not to be “too available”. I played it cool. Never said I love you first and always waited hours/days before returning calls/texts. He chased after me for 6 months and proposed. The night before the wedding he told me he didn’t think he felt for me the way he should, and broke it off.

Believe it or not, I was relieved because I didn’t really love him either. I’m going to back to being straightforward with guys because even if I didn’t get proposed to, at least those relationships were more fulfilling than with my ex.

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