May be it is indeed over, or may be it’s …

Comment on How to Respond to An Angry and Hurt Ex – (Clue) Don’t Make Things Worse by LOVE DOCTOR, YANGKI AKITENG.

May be it is indeed over, or may be it’s your attitude and the way you are approaching this that is creating more resistance.

In my experience, most situations are not what many of us make them out to be. They are made worse by our constantly dwelling on what we think is “the problem”. Usually that “problem” is something we can’t change because we have no control over it.

All you can change is what’s within your control. Get hold of your emotions, change the attitude, approach things differently, and see what happens.


How to Respond to An Angry and Hurt Ex – (Clue) Don’t Make Things Worse
I can’t tell you if it’s worth trying or not. You are the only one that can determine that.

She may have good reason for being angry, or as you say, she may just be passive aggressive. May be instead of being defensive or dismissing it as her passive-aggressive nature, hear her out. Listen to what she’s angry about, ask questions and try to come to some form of genuine understanding, both ways. The more defensive you are, the angrier she gets.

How to Respond to An Angry and Hurt Ex – (Clue) Don’t Make Things Worse
When you’re ready, reach out at least 3 times before you give up.

You never know until you try.


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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.

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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.

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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.

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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.

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