You’re absolutely right, timing of apology is VERY important. This is …

Comment on How to Get Your Ex To Trust You Again – Pt. 2 by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

You’re absolutely right, timing of apology is VERY important.

This is why in my Dating Your Ex eBook, I advice against apologizing very early on when emotions are still raw. Even if your apology is genuine, your ex is not ready to hear you out.

If he is still open to contact, try as much as possible not to discuss the break-up or old relationship. Let the emotions settle and the memories of the negative events fade out somewhat.

In short, if he is still open to contact, you can still make it work.

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