Good for you… things should feel and BE different, that’s …

Comment on How to Get Your Ex To Trust You Again – Pt. 1 by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

Good for you… things should feel and BE different, that’s how you know you are not doing the old relationship again.

Keep in mind that contact, hanging out etc, is not what is going to get you back together long term. It’s making sure you’ve worked on why you are insecure and needy. THAT is why you broke -up, why you may not get back together, and why you may get back together and break-up again.

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How to Get Your Ex To Trust You Again – Pt. 1
Yes. A lot depends on what happens in that one year when you are broken up.

The good thing going for you is that you stayed in each other’s lives, proof of maturity on both sides (you’re 50, I would be shocked it if were otherwise… :))

The other good thing going for you is that she’s open to the possibility of the two of you getting back together.

Now it’s up to you to make her not only see the new you, but like him and fall in love with him!


How to Get Your Ex To Trust You Again – Pt. 1
Sounds like you have a keeper there!

I definitely think you should let her know how you feel, but before you do it make sure you’re ready to stay, and won’t break her heart again. People can only be hurt so many times.

I also think that before you tell her, try it out with one or two romantic gestures — something that you think will really impress her and see how she responds. In other words, work you way towards “the talk”. This might end up being your “get back together talk”.


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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


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I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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