If you want your ex back, no contact is a …

Comment on How to Get Back An Ex In A Rebound Relationship by Yangki Akiteng.

If you want your ex back, no contact is a very bad idea whatever your reasons for doing it are. All you can do now is respect her wish and let her try out the new relationship.

Next time, don’t do no contact. Your ex is not going to be waiting around while you “heal” yourself.

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I believe you when you say no contact created cracks that didn’t exist before. But even more importantly, it allowed for someone else to move in and fill the space left by you when you cut off all contact, and voluntarily took yourself out of the picture.

Is it a rebound? Possibly. It’s too early to tell. Some rebounds last and/or end up being long term.

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Yes and no. Please see my article: Facts About Rebound Relationships.

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.

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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!

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I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.

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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.

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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.

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