You’re only seeing it from your point of view – …

Comment on Should I Wait For My Ex and For How Long? by Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng.

You’re only seeing it from your point of view – not the other person’s. There is no guarantee that he/she’ll miss having you around especially if having you around is what he/she was running away from in the first place. Remember, it’s so much easier to forget someone who doesn’t seem to care about our well-being than it is to forget someone who cares. If a friend distanced him/herself from me when I was going through a hard time and sorting out some personal stuff, I would NEVER be interested in having that person in my life ever again.

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


What to Do When Your Ex Sends Mixed Signals
I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


What Not To Do When Your Ex Wants Space
You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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