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Smart decision to use both books…! Makes a big difference.

You are right that when you let go and ‘refocus” it translates as “no pressure”. What made the difference is not just you letting go of “expectations”. What made the difference was 1) letting go and waiting to see what action you need to take and 2) refocusing your attention, energy, effort and action in away that you move with the natural flow instead of fighting the current. As emphasized in the book, the keywords are “clarity” and “refocus”. Don’t lose sight of that and the progress you make will surprise you!… 🙂

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It’s good to read about progress… 🙂

Using both books together as you’ve experienced moves things forward a lot faster and with more ease.

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Stop trying to make him talk to you. It’s you thinking that you can just switch him on and off that is making him more resistant. Try sending him a simple and very brief text telling him you realize you made a mistake not giving him time to explain himself. Say you’d like at some point to be able to explain yourself in person but only when he feels ready. Then step back and let him decide what he wants to do.

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Some people are ‘naturals” at emotional connection because of how they were raised and others are professionally trained (e.g. therapists). But most people learn it. So yes, it can be learned… and I’m trying to teach it… 🙂

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I have confidence that you will get back on track. You came close once, you can do it again… and being “open to love” doesn’t hurt… 😉

I appreciate your kind words. It means a lot. Thank you.

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