There is something seriously wrong with someone whose sole life …

Comment on Facebook Ruining Your Relationship? by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

There is something seriously wrong with someone whose sole life is facebook or twitter. I had a friend whose ex posted on facebook photos of the food he was about to eat… who does that?

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Are You Too Alike To Be Together?
You mean “like” and “FAN” are not the same thing? Silly me. I should have taken English Major. I might have been somebody important or rich. I hope it’s not too late.


Can An Emotionally Aloof Person Change?
Most of the time, it’s something you learn early in life. Cold and self centered kind of becomes your “default” traits. Some people continue it into adulthood because it’s either the only way they know how to or there is some sort of “reward” for them being cold and self centered (why would they want to change?).

Since it’s something that was learned – whatever can be learned can be unlearned. The only exception – at least from what I read – is if something happened to your brain to cause you not to be able to have/experience certain feelings the way the rest of us do, then you need more than just “unlearning” the behaviour. Other than that, if you really want to change, you CAN CHANGE!


How Letting Go Helps Get Back Your Ex
Congratulations, May!… 🙂

You will be just fine… I know it. All the very best.


3 Reasons Staying Friends With Your Ex Is Good For Getting Back Together
This could be because you still want her as your girlfriend and not as a friend. Until you reach that point where you “let go” hoping there will be a relationship of more than friends, it’ll be hard to get to being friends. Best advice is 1) be honest with your ex, friendship may be possible in the future, but right now you just can’t do it and 2) don’t try too hard to be her friend. Friendships are best when they just happen naturally.


Are You Unintentionally Making Your Ex Unhappy Or Angry?
First of all, very few exes end a relationship saying: ‘I am breaking up with you but I am sure I will change my mind and want you back’. Very few.

Over 90% honestly believe that it is over and thy are not changing their minds. Most change their minds because the dynamic changed and they can see the relationship can be better.

What I am saying is, as long as the lines of communication are still open, there is always a possibility he’ll change his mind. It is who you become (new you) and what you do to make the relationship FEEL and BE new and better that makes all the difference.


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