I think the “guilt” might be because she feels that …

Comment on Why Do I Feel Guilt For Breaking Up With My Alcoholic Ex? by The Love Doctor.

I think the “guilt” might be because she feels that you are a great guy who has a lot to offer, but what you offer isn’t what she feels will make her happy. So she’s feeling bad that it’s not your fault that she doesn’t appreciate what you offer. But that’s just my guess. You might want to have another conversation with her on this to find out what it is exactly that she’s feeling guilty about. Ask her what is so important to her that she does not want a relationship with you. It’s no use being in a relationship with someone who thinks you’re a great guy but not the “right” one.

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