May be he is getting bored with the new relationship, …

Comment on Facts About Rebound Relationships – Will It Last? by Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng.

May be he is getting bored with the new relationship, may be not. As long as he is with her and says he (thinks he) loves her, him texting you means little. He may just be looking for some piece on the side. It happens.

My advice is take care of your own happiness, and if down the road they do break-up and you still want him back, then great! Any attempts to break them up may just draw them even closer.

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Unless the relationship is serious or they’ve been together for over a year, the presence of another man or woman doesn’t mean you can not get back your ex.

I think that you have the right mindset and are set in the right direction. All the very best!


Facts About Rebound Relationships – Will It Last?
I am happy to answer all questions you may have. Please sign up for any one of my phone coaching packages – and ask me anything you want — e.g. if there is a way forward for you or not, what next steps to take in your unique situation, what you can do to increase your chances of getting back together/speed up the process etc.


Facts About Rebound Relationships – Will It Last?
It is possible. Like the article says, sometimes someone can “move on” emotionally but not have the courage to end the relationship.

But whether he was over you as he said or is lying to her, why is that even your business? It is only your business if he is saying he wants to be with you. The question then is, do you want to take back someone who dated someone else while still with you?

But it seems that’s not the case. He is with her and if she believes him and wants to be with him, let them be.


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