Not weird at all. If you truly love someone, you …

Comment on What It REALLY Means To Let Go Of The Past by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

Not weird at all. If you truly love someone, you never “get over” him/her. You can move on but you can’t erase the fact that for a point in time, they reflected back to you a apart of yourself. They held a mirror for you so you could see yourself more clearly.

How we react when the relationship ends depends on whether we appreciate/liked what they reflected back to us, or whether were uncomfortable with what was reflected back to us.

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I have no idea what you are talking about in the first part of your comment, but I think these two articles answer your questions:

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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?
I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.

What to Do When Your Ex Sends Mixed Signals
I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.

What Not To Do When Your Ex Wants Space
You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.

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