I don’t understand what you mean by “better an other …

Comment on A Break-Up Vs. A Bad Start by Yangki Akiteng.

I don’t understand what you mean by “better an other plan to reinforce our connection again?”

As for following my book, that’s a decision only you can make.

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A Break-Up Vs. A Bad Start
If there is even a possibility, it’s probably too low because he never fell in love with you in the first place. Since he already tried feeling something and didn’t, it’s very likely that he’s convinced that those feelings will never come. It’d have been different if he felt he didn’t try, or didn’t try hard enough. Then may be he’d want to give it a another chance.

That said, if he’s still open to communicating with you, and you can show him that things can be different, you might have a chance. It’s always better to err on the side of trying than give up before you even try. That way you’ll know for sure.


A Break-Up Vs. A Bad Start
I hope that after years he’ll still be available and/or interested. Even if he’s not, working to better yourself is always a good thing..


A Break-Up Vs. A Bad Start
I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you. Take the lessons from this experience and learn from it. You also still have each other as friends, that’s a great thing… and who know what the future may bring. Please, please, I’m not trying to raise false hope here. I’m just stating that you just never know. Love has it’s reasons that even reason itself does not know.


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I’m hoping with you… 🙂
Thank you for your kinds words.


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In the context of attracting back your ex, yes.

Go to “All Articles” in the menu and select “Attachment Anxiety & Avoidant Ex” category or type “attachment anxiety” in the search tool and read the articles that come up.


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I know… 😉


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Type “emotional connection” in the search tool and there are several articles on how to emotionally connect with an ex. My book ‘Dating Your Ex” also has examples of how to go about making an emotional connection. But if you want more specific advice tailored to your unique situation, your ex’s personality and your ex’s attachment style, I am happy to coach you on how to emotionally connect with him and move things forward.


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Spend time on this site and you’ll learn how. Balancing closeness and respect for the other’s boundaries is exactly what the site is about.


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