If things are exactly the same as they were last …

Comment on Do Exes Really Ever Come Back? by Yangki Akiteng.

If things are exactly the same as they were last month or last week, you don’t have momentum. You are not messing up, but you are not moving forward either.

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Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?

You are easy to love, Angie. It makes sense he’s back so soon.

Don’t thank me, thank YOU. Okay, me a little… 🙂

Much love back at you!

Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?
I am rooting for you… 🙂

Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?
Thanks, I do the best I can.

Yes, it’s a good idea… 🙂 There is enough momentum to propel you forward. I too believe that you will get back together, it’s only a matter of time (if you don’t screw it up).

Recent Comments by Yangki Akiteng

How Long After A Break-Up Does Your Ex Start Missing You?
That’s a sad story. Unfortunately it happens too frequently.

If you are contacting him to get him back, I think you should rethink it. He’s shown you who he is, believe him!

If you are contacting him to give him a piece of your mind… let him have it.

3 Reasons Staying Friends With Your Ex Is Good For Getting Back Together
You are on the right path. If you can stop the fighting completely, your relationship will grow and flourish.

Thank you for your kind words, and God bless you too!

20 PLUS Incredible Success Stories Of People Who Got Back Their Ex
This is incredible. I am happy for you and with you… 🙂

Thank you so much for coming back to share your story. It means a lot to me. Someone will read your story and want to make it their story… and that’s the power of love!

What Does Starting Over With Your Ex Mean?
Timing, ‘safe’ topics and needy contact is in Dating Your Ex. When and how to arrange a face to face is also in the book. There are also numerous articles to all those topics on the site. Spend sometimes searching for them. If you need advice specific to your situation, please consider signing up for coaching.

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You
I totally agree… if he/she keeps bringing up an ex, then there are some “unresolved” issues there. But does it necessarily mean you’re being “played?” Some people get “stuck in the past” even when they have no second thoughts of getting back with an ex… anger, pain of rejection/abandonment, etc.

***Keeps bringing up an ex — tale-tell sign with a question mark. There is a possibility he/she could be on the rebound and using you (but not intentionally) to get over an ex (and you may even know it but choose to believe what you want to believe).

But there are also some men and women who don’t want the person they’re dating to say anything positive about an ex… they ask questions and when the person answers honestly, they automatically conclude “he/she’s not over an ex yet!” They assume all exes are exes because they were “bad” people, and all break-ups are nasty/painful – which is not true for everyone.

***Says positive (fond) things about an ex — not necessarily a red flag unless they’re saying it in ways that suggest they still have hopes of someday getting back together.

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