1.5 years of NC IS A VERY long time to …

Comment on Is It Possible to Get Back My Ex 1 Year After The Break-Up? by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

1.5 years of NC IS A VERY long time to be away, it’s most likely that he moved on, but since you reached out to him when you had emergency surgery he may be trying not to come across as rude or insensitive.

Also reaching out to someone when you just had surgery and telling him you miss him and love him (after 1.5 years of NC) is suspicious, and can be seen as manipulative (using your condition to get attention or more).

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This is an example of why I do not advice or encourage NC. After being apart for so long it’s very hard (to impossible) to get back that connection. It’s a lot of trying this and trying that because you are practically strangers and don’t know what to emotionally connect on anymore.

See if you can use some of the advice here to try to re-establish a connection. It’s going to be very hard though. Also may be other sites that advice NC may have some good advice on how to go about reconnecting in your situation.

Sorry, I am not of much help when it comes to NC situations.


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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


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I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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