The Break-Up Dictionary – What Your Ex Means

break-up-dictionary-what-your-ex-meantEver had someone break-up with you, and although they said it was “the reason” for the break-up, somewhere deep inside you knew there was more to it?

Well, I’ve been in this field long enough (probably too long) and I’ve heard it all. It’s not always what they tell you it is… but you probably already knew that, didn’t you?

Let’s tell it like it is.

  1. We need a break. [I need a break from you.]
  2. I need space. [You’re needy, clingy and demanding.]
  3. I need space. [You need to slow down. You’re moving too fast for me.]
  4. I need space. [You’re taking over my life.]
  5. I need space. [I’m already getting tired of you.]
  6. I’m not ready for a relationship right now. [You’re moving way faster than I’m comfortable with.]
  7. You deserve better. [I’m not the “one” for you.]
  8.  You just don’t get me. [I’m tired of pretending this is working for me.]
  9. I love you like a friend. [You don’t turn me on as before, but we can be friends.]
  10. I think we should just be friends. [I don’t want to have sex with you anymore.]
  11. I think we should just be friends. [I want to keep you around as a booty-call/sidekick.]
  12. This relationship is too much work. [This relationship is going no where.]
  13. We want different things. [We’re not compatible.]
  14. I’m just not ready for a commitment. [If you want to get married soon, then go ahead and get married… not to me.]
  15. I just can’t keep up with you. [I can’t keep up with all the texting/emails/calls. I have better things to do with my life.]
  16. I think we should see other people. [I think you should find yourself someone who loves you more than I do.]
  17. I think we should see other people. [I think there is someone else out there for me.]
  18. If it’s meant to be, we’ll be together again [If I don’t meet someone better, I’ll settle for you.]
  19. Let’s step back and reevaluate what we really want. [I’m not sure you are what I want. I think a little time apart will make that clear for me.]
  20. I need to focus on my career. [My career is more important than you.]
  21. We’re just at different points in our lives. [We’re not growing together, we’re growing apart.]
  22. I don’t want to hold you back. [You’re over sacrificing for this relationship. I’m not ready to make the same sacrifices.]
  23. I love you but I’m not in love with you. [The chemistry in this relationship is gone.]
  24. I love you, and will always love you. [You are a wonderful person, but I don’t see a future with you.]
  25. I can’t love you the way you deserve to be loved. [No one can meet your high expectations and demands. Bye.]
  26. I can’t love you the way you deserve to be loved. [I’m breaking up with you before you find out I’m not good enough for you.]
  27. Let’s see where we stand in a few weeks/months. [I hope to be completely over you in a few weeks/months.]
  28. It’s not you, it’s me. [It’s you, but it’d damage your self-esteem if I told you the truth.]
  29. It’s not you, it’s me. [It’s me. I’m not that into you.]
  30. It’s not you, it’s me. [It’s me, and I’m not too messed up to see I have a problem.]
  31. This hurts me more than it hurts you. [Please feel sorry for me for breaking up with you.]
  32. I never really loved you. [I know you are going to try to change my mind, so I’ll make you hate me. It’s easier that way.]
  33. I never really loved you. [There, I finally said it! Now go away.]
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