Sexual charisma is like a MAGNET. If you have it, you’ll draw people to you.
So how does one get sexual charisma?
1) DEVELOP A SEX-POSITIVE ATTITUDE
Unlearn your guilt about your sexual body and sexual desires. Give yourself the permission to really celebrate what you have inside of yourself and develop the emotional and social skills you need to be able to share your real self with your sexual partner and with the rest of the world.
2) KNOW YOUR SEXUAL BODY
The greatest knowledge you can have when it comes to sexuality is how your body responds to its sexual, social or business environment. If you’ve been living in your head, get back into your body and fully inhabit it. It is not what the body can do for you but what you can do with the body that gives you the sexual magnetism you long for.
3) DEVELOP YOUR OWN INDIVIDUAL STYLE
Your sexual magnetism is a unique, individualized expression of self. Knowing that you’re uniquely and wonderfully created is saying, “I like who I am and I know you will like me too”. Develop the kind of attitude that get people all excited just thinking of talking to you or getting to see you again.
4) BE SPONTANEOUS AND UNPREDICTABLE
Spontaneity and unpredictability are the soul of sexual charisma and it’s what keeps other people fascinated by you. Work on developing spontaneity in your emotional manifestations by taking actions in each moment driven by your inner awareness. Let go of contriving, scheming, pretense and living in self-distrust. Tap into your subconscious and set your imagination free. Let your hair down and discover your wild side.
5) LEARN TO ENJOY LIFE
Many of us are too rushed to enjoy life, too confused to be simple, too rich to have enough, too worried to be healthy, too ungrateful to be happy, too afraid to love, and too controlling to be free. Your sexual magnetism depends on your ability to let go and be in the moment. But in order to enjoy the moment you have to learn to appreciate it. Develop an attitude of thankfulness inspite or despite of your current circumstances.
6) BECOME INTERESTED IN OTHER PEOPLE
Sexual magnetism is not about a superior attitude or blowing your own horn, it is about listening and making other people comfortable talking about themselves. Work on being someone who is interested rather than worry about being interesting.
7) SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GOOD FRIENDS
There are few things in this world that can make you feel like a million bucks – a good friend is one of those things. A good friend is that person who gives you the courage and strength to get out there and conquer the world. Cultivate lots of different friendships with both men and women – especially single ones. Having lots of friends of the opposite sex is a great way to learn about the opposite sex, it’s better than anything you read in books which are only other people’s opinions.
8) ENHANCE YOUR SPIRITUAL AWARENESS
The journey towards your sexual embodiment is also the journey towards your spiritual enlightenment. Sex and Spirit are inseparable. Do not concentrate on developing one and ignore the other. When you neglect one, the other will be distorted.
Begin vibrating this powerful magnetic energy and watch how people suddenly begin noticing and gravitating towards you.
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