Comment on 5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.
It is good to read feedback like yours. It’s always my hope that in some small way I can contribute to others finding their way to secure attachment.
You are right in your observation. It is more difficult for someone with an insecure attachment style (anxious, fearful, or avoidant) to provide a secure base without first doing their own. Their advice will be influenced by their own attachment style.
All the very best on your journey to secure attachment!
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It does. Everything you wrote does… 🙂
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too much” and pull away or tell her how you feel when you are ‘frustrated” (dismissive way).
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