Comment on 4 Ways To Take It Slow With Your Ex – Works With A Fearful Avoidant Ex by Lori.
I am finally getting some positive movement forward. I moved across the country to instill some hope into our future. It was a risky move in a way. I had to be happy with my decision with or without him, and I was even when he seemed to respond initially very negatively to the pressure of my being here. Once he saw that I was creating a life of my own, he has relaxed and today finally asked me on a date. You prepared me for this Yangki, as I had two phone consultations with you where you strongly suggested that I create a life with my own friends and activities not relying on him for my needs. I hope to keep the same fun, pressure free vibe going on the date and after. We broke up twice before due to the long distance. Keeping in contact has been a big part of maintaining a connection. Big thank you for everything