Timing, ‘safe’ topics and needy contact is in Dating Your …

Comment on How To Start Over [A New Relationship] With An Ex by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

Timing, ‘safe’ topics and needy contact is in Dating Your Ex. When and how to arrange a face to face is also in the book. There are also numerous articles to all those topics on the site. Spend sometimes searching for them. If you need advice specific to your situation, please consider signing up for coaching.

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How To Start Over [A New Relationship] With An Ex
You both seem to have a lot of pent up emotions. If arguing was one of the reasons the two of you broke up, it means nothing has changed. There is no point in trying to get back together only to break-up again.

You can’t do anything about your ex’s mind games, except refuse to be drawn in. But you can do something about you, to change how you respond so that things don’t always get to “or worse” point. Will making changes get you two back together? I don’t know. A lot depends on how much damage has already been done to the relationship. It’s always worth a try if you still love someone. I’ve seen people turn around a situation that seemed impossible.


How To Start Over [A New Relationship] With An Ex
By being completely honest with oneself and with each other, respectful of the other’s feelings and opinions even if the you do not agree, and by refraining from hurtful responses. And once the door for open and honest communication has been opened, it must continue because if the other person at any one time feels that they are being manipulated, then they will either keep a very close watch on what they say or how they respond, or walk away.


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I’m hoping with you… 🙂
Thank you for your kinds words.


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In the context of attracting back your ex, yes.

Go to “All Articles” in the menu and select “Attachment Anxiety & Avoidant Ex” category or type “attachment anxiety” in the search tool and read the articles that come up.


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I know… 😉


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Type “emotional connection” in the search tool and there are several articles on how to emotionally connect with an ex. My book ‘Dating Your Ex” also has examples of how to go about making an emotional connection. But if you want more specific advice tailored to your unique situation, your ex’s personality and your ex’s attachment style, I am happy to coach you on how to emotionally connect with him and move things forward.


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Spend time on this site and you’ll learn how. Balancing closeness and respect for the other’s boundaries is exactly what the site is about.


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