Comment on 10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing by Marlene.
I am so so so happy I found this site. Every expert I consulted said my ex was unavailable, playing mind games or just not into me. We were together 8 wonderful months and out of no where he wanted space. I was confused because the day before he told me it is the happiest he is ever been. I am an anxious attacher and no contact was not an option, lol. I read your site every day and came upon your articles on understanding an avoidant ex and it was like a light bulb came on. My ex is a dismissive avoidant and fits perfectly to what you say. To cut the long story short, I bought your Dating Ex book and now my dismissive avoidant ex is opening up and emotionally engaged again. He has initiated a couple of texts and I know better not to get excited and let my own anxious attachment style get in the way. I love this guy so much and will be booking a couple of phone sessions for more advice. Thank you sooooo much.